4th Of JULY!!!

This weekend is 4th of July! I'm going to our lake house to watch a huge firework show over the water,it's beautiful & lots of fun! I hope everyone else has a SAFE & FUN 4th also! :)    Remember to use cautions and safety around fireworks,you can use coolers to put them in once they've been shot off to help prevent burns & fires.FIREWORKS ARE NOT TOYS!!!!

Life is tough but i'm tougher

This is my new saying! (Life is tough but i'm tougher!) because it's true & i've been trying hard not to let the little things bother me or take my frustrations out on the people that I love.So when your mad,try walking away to cool off then come back to discuss whats wrong or what happened with that person.When your angry,take a walk or read a book,even try listening to music.When your sad or down about something,talk to someone you can trust or write it down.Other things you can try,to help your mood or emotions or whatever it is bothering you,out but by letting that person know how you feel without causing a fight or a good friendship or even a relationship to fall apart.Focus on your breathing,take a warm shower,paint your nails (for the ladies!)that helps me,just by being alone for a few minutes.Coloring, sitting outside by yourself,holding a rock or a bead in your hand just playing with it,can help calm you down because your focused on the object in your hand.Think about things before you say it or do it,there are other ways to let a person know how you feel without yelling or throwing things & possibly getting physically hurt.I know people can say things that might throw you over the edge & you just want to slap them,but cool off first then discuss the issue.Remember (LIFE IS TOUGH BUT BE TOUGHER!) It took alot for me to learn these things before it finally sunk in one day,I CAN talk to someone without yelling or causing a friendship to fall apart for some stupid reason.DON'T let this happen to you,I hope these things can help you too! :)

The road to my future.

As i'm planning my future,i'm realizing there's gonna be bumps in the road,financially,& emotionally,nobody ever said life was easy or is going to be easy.I will face those times when they get here,but for now I have to focus on the future because I can't go back and redo the past.I have been trying hard to do whats best for me,because I was trying to please everyone else by make them happy & putting them first,I let myself get forgotten & I realized that I wasn't happy or making myself happy.So i've started doing what I want to do for me,but NO I haven't forgotten my loved ones! My goal is to finish college & go into the Medical Field....Ultra Sound Technician,or a Neonatal nurse.Then start my career & continue on with my life.But some of my family isn't supportive,some of them are jealous because they didn't continue with high school or quit & didn't even go through college,because they had babies really young & had to work.I want to be the one who does right & not look back & regret not doing those things,not saying that having a baby is a mistake,but I want to wait until i'm financially stable before I have kids.I've learned from my family & friends who have had kids young & it's really hard at times.I wish I could go back at times & re think some decisions that i've made but I can't so i'll keep moving forward. I'm focusing on my future & ready for whatever life throws at me.

T.G.I.F

I'm soo glad it's Friday! Because this week is going to be so much fun,we have alot going on,A Family LUAU,My sisters Birthday,My Friends Birthday,Then heading to the Lake for the firework display on 4th of JULY!!!! I'm going to be busy,but having fun. :)   I hope this weekend is going to be as much fun for everyone else. xoxo

I'm just now starting to blog,I hope my blog is interesting to you.I know it's going to help me out alot,because words can be hurtful,once you say something it's said & you can't take it back.But blogging is a way to let it out & kinda keep it to yourself at the same time.